Still Waiting!

August 20th, 2011

Today is the 90th day of waiting for the approval of  our petition.  We constantly check our status on line but seems no changes at all.   We waited 2 years for my annulment and now it seems that a day is like a year for us.  Its like a waiting game.  We’re being tested how strong we are and how we love each other.  I know good things come to those who wait.  There was a time that i almost question God, “when Lord”? Nonetheless, I know it’s not the right thing to do…I  should have more trust in His supernatural power, trust and have Faith that God is really working.

Every time that i feel sad and miss David,  I always comfort myself by reading God’s words.  I read  encouraging words to make me feel okay again. I have to always remember that God has a good plan for us. Plans to prosper us and not to harm us. 

The real beauty of waiting is the priceless reward from God and one of those is my loving man. I know in this waiting period of our visa journey the reward is absolutely fulfilling and worth the wait.  So, have patience and trust God for everything. He is never late. God Bless our Journey.

Patience is a Virtue!

August 3rd, 2011

We’re now on our 3rd month of waiting for an approval of our visa petitions. It doesn’t really seem like that long, yet it seems like an eternity. Every single day counts. Now I understand that patience is really a virtue.

I have been busy preparing the documents needed for our interview. A lot of stuff to facilitate. We already filed for NBI clearance and we will have it on Aug. 18. Done with our Police Clearance. Still waiting for my NSO final paper that will be released Aug. 22. Already applied for a travel clearance for my son Jedd and need to be sent to Iloilo for signature of his father. Doing a lot of printing of emails exchange, chat logs and pictures…..everything is going to be alright…….more patience, patience, patience….NOA2 please come tomorrow!

A Post From David, “What’s So Special?”

June 23rd, 2011

What’s So Special?

Category: Coming Together
Created on Friday, 17 June 2011 08:22
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So, what is so special about my loving Malen and her loving me? What is special about our relationship? Well, of course there are the basic things like physical attraction, having fun together, and sharing affection. There is also the next level – we are of like mind about the important things like family, honesty, and general relationship behavior. We make each other laugh, agree on almost everything, and are very similar people. I always heard that opposites attract, but I always suspected that opposites make bad relationships. No to sound narcissistic, but the closer to yourself your partner (in morals, ideals, behavior, and personality), the better the relationship will be. That may sound boring, but “attraction” only get people together. Similarities are what keep them together.

But with Malen and I, there is an even higher level – complete trust and absolutely no doubts. It is wonderful to be 100% secure in the person you love and in your relationship. Doubts about a relationship you are in do not have to come from your partner – they can also come from yourself. I have never been in a relationship where I NEVER even consider that it might not work out, and believe me, my logical mind thinks about EVERYTHING in the known universe. When you know exactly where you came from, and exactly where you both agree you are going, there is no energy wasted on wondering or doubting.

When we joke with each other about other people, it is just funny – there are no nagging thoughts or doubts in the back of our minds. If I get a little testy from time to time, it does no damage whatsoever to our relationship because Malen knows it has nothing to do with her or how I feel about her. We have an amazing level of trust, compatibility, and being secure with each other. It is as if we have indeed become a single unit. And, THAT is what is so special about our love.

I have my annulment…God is So Good!

May 18th, 2011

Its almost two years since I filed my annulment. We have lot of depressions and frustrations because my lawyer screwed up my annulment case. It is a great relief for us that now I have my final paper on hand. David was able to submit the packet for our visa and that it will take 4 to 6 months for the processing. We were happy that everything falls into places. God is so good.

Our Trip to Tacloban and Singapore!

April 13th, 2011

I’m looking forward to our trip to Tacloban and Singapore this May with David.  We will be staying in Marvin’s Inn for a week and in Ibis Bencoleen Hotel in Singapore.  We will be visiting Sentosa and Universal Studios.  I’m so excited!

I’m in Iloilo

April 10th, 2011

I went home to Iloilo because my dad was hospitalized due to car accident. The van that they were riding was his by a 12 wheeler truck. His left hip bone was fractured and was advised by the doctor for a month complete bed rest. Good thing the insurance company will shoulder the hospital bills. Right now he is recuperating very fast and will be out by the hospital tomorrow.

Happy Hearts Day!

February 13th, 2011

Today will be one of my cherished moments in my life. Surprisingly, I received a bouquet of flowers and a chocolate cake from my honey. How sweet he is that he makes an effort to express his love in spite of the distance. I remember he said that he is not romantic and seldom gave flowers, that’s why it is really a surprise to me. I know being romantic is not only by sending flowers, cards, etc. but the way you treat your love one, the way you show how much you care, supporting and being their to listen is the most romantic. Happy Hearts Day honey!!!

I love this song for my wedding

February 12th, 2011

My Beauty Secret Revealed!

February 11th, 2011

Happy Birthday My One and Only!

January 29th, 2011

I thank God for he sent you to me
That’s why I am very lucky
I know that you and I were meant to be
And we will always be happy.

We found true love, too strong to break
For you and I were bound to make
We have a bond for our sake
We have a LOVE no one can take.

For now I know that everything we do
Is moving toward for us two
I dream of the day when we’ll both say, “I DO”
For always and forever.
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU.